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The most common culture shocks for foreign parents in Norway 

When it comes to raising kids in Norway, there are quite a few things considered normal that can leave foreigners with raised eyebrows. 

Pictured is a baby in a pram.
There are a number of culture shocks in Norway that will catch parents off guard. Pictured is a baby in a pram. Photo by photo nic on Unsplash

Food choices 

Plenty of schools and kindergartens across the country don’t serve warm food to students. Instead, packed lunches offered by both schools and kindergartens are the go-to choice. 

This can come as somewhat of a shock to parents, especially in the winter when children are expected to play outside. 

The kind of foods offered can also raise some annoyance from parents, as ultra-processed items such as “bacon cheese” in a tube will be served on a slice of bread. 

Ultra-sugary and salty foods being on offer are also another common complaint. 

Babies sleeping outside in the winter 

In the Nordic countries, it is common for parents to leave their babies asleep outside in prams during the winter. 

This comes as a shock for two reasons. Firstly, many nervous parents may not feel safe leaving their child alone outside where they are originally from—or they may be put off by the potential judgement of other parents. 

Secondly is the fact that the winters in Norway are pretty cold. 

In fact, when it’s too cold (-10c and below), parents are advised not to leave their children outdoors as babies have a harder time regulating their body temperature, so they are more at risk of hypothermia. 

If it isn’t too cold, you can expect to see parents leave their children in a pram while they run into a store and grab something quickly. 

Some sleep experts say there may be some health benefits, such as deeper sleep. 

Plenty of outdoors time 

Perhaps Norwegians’ general love for the outdoors can be attributed to them starting from an early age. 

As we hinted at earlier, kids are expected to get plenty of time outdoors. In the winter, kids are sent out to play unless it is extremely cold. There will even be special field trips and outdoor days all year round. 

There are even special kindergartens that place a special emphasis on being outside. 

This focus on the outdoors means that some kids may be given the responsibility of using tools such as camping knives from an early age. 

Another shock may come in the form of how much all this gear for hiking, skiing and camping will set families back. 

This emphasis on being outdoors means many children are allowed to play outside and take themselves to and from school at an earlier age than in other countries. 

Party etiquette 

A core part of Norwegian society is built on inclusiveness, and this extends to birthday parties.

While in some countries you can expect to only invite your children’s friends to a party, in Norway, this could be considered rude. 

Instead, you will probably be expected to invite your child’s entire class or, at the very least, all the children of your child’s own gender.  

Schools may even have their own policy on the rules to ensure that as few children as possible are left out.  

Long parental leave 

Parents in Norway are typically entitled to a total of 12 months’ leave before and after the birth. These 12 months include the opportunity for the mother to take leave for up to 12 weeks during the pregnancy and six weeks for the mother after the birth. 

This will shock some, where parental leave can be as low as 12 weeks of unpaid leave. 

In addition to these 12 months, each of the parents is entitled to 1 year’s leave for each birth. This leave must be taken immediately after the first year of leave. 

In Norway, you are also entitled to parental benefits while you are on leave. This means many parents have the opportunity to spend quality time with their children that they otherwise wouldn’t have been able to—at least without significant financial pressure. 

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The private and international school options in Bergen

Families looking to provide their children with an international or private education experience have several choices to consider in Bergen, Norway's second-largest city.

The private and international school options in Bergen

For international parents moving to Bergen in western Norway, figuring out schooling options for their kids is a big deal.

Some lean towards private or international schools to keep things consistent, especially if they’re used to a particular teaching style or curriculum, in the hope of providing a familiar environment for their children amidst the changes.

READ MORE: How much are the fees for Norway’s private and international schools?

Others appreciate the idea of private and international schools because they’re melting pots of cultures.

The International School of Bergen

The International School of Bergen (ISB) is located in the residential area of Sandsli, approximately 15 kilometres from Bergen’s city centre.

Established in 1975 to cater to the needs of international families, the school’s modernised and renovated building, completed in 2019, serves as a hub for learning and community building.

In addition to traditional classrooms, the school boasts facilities including a library, art rooms, a well-equipped science laboratory, and a gymnasium.

Beyond the school gates, ISB students have access to amenities, including a swimming pool, ice rink, and various sports facilities, which complement the school’s educational programs.

Regular field trips to local science discovery centres, museums, art galleries, and historical sites enrich students’ learning experiences, while Bergen’s countryside serves as an extended classroom for outdoor exploration.

You can find more information on tuition and fees for the school year 2024-2025 on the school’s website.

Møllebakken Private School

Møllebakken School caters to students across the region, from Åsane in the north to Os in the south and from Sotra in the west to Arna in the east.

With its doors open to learners from diverse backgrounds, the school prides itself on fostering a vibrant and inclusive educational environment.

In the academic year 2023 – 2024, Møllebakken School had an enrollment of approximately 73 students.

Beyond academics, Møllebakken School cultivates a sense of community through several annual school events – such as fundraising for humanitarian causes and ski camps – that bring together students, parents, and educators.

School and parental after-school fees are payable for 11 months each year. When it comes to pricing, for children in levels 1st to 6th grade, the general school fee amounts to 1,250 kroner per month.

For youth in levels 7th to 10th grade, the price is set at 1,650 kroner per month. A separate fee, referred to as “capital costs,” is allocated for maintaining the school. This amounts to 1,000 kroner per year per pupil.

The Montessori School in Bergen

The Montessori School in Bergen offers primary education from the 1st to 10th grades, guided by the principles of Montessori pedagogy.

As Bergen’s oldest and largest Montessori institution, it prides itself on providing a nurturing and empowering educational environment.

READ MORE: How many children in Norway attend a private or international school?

As a private school, the Montessori School offers an alternative to traditional public education. The teachers act as guides and facilitators, encouraging students to explore, experiment, and learn through trial and error.

Central to its approach is the belief in fostering independence, self-reliance, and a sense of contribution in each child.

The school ensures that Montessori pedagogy remains at the forefront of its teaching practices while aligning with key Norwegian competency goals.

You can learn more about the application process on the school’s website.

Metis Private School

Metis Private School is centrally located at Lars Hilles gate 17, between Grieg Hall and Bergen’s main bus station.

The school prides itself on having a 99 percent graduation rate among its upper secondary school students.

It charges a standard cost for all pupils, totalling 18,400 per year (as per 2023/2024 prices), which is invoiced at a rate of 1,840 kroner per month for ten months.

The second part of the school fees is flexible and varies based on the specific educational activities in a student’s program.

Metis also offers additional benefits to its students, which include a MacBook with Office and Adobe Suite, a school bag, and a school jumper, all provided without extra charges.

St. Paul’s Catholic School

Since its establishment in 1873, St. Paul’s Catholic School has been a cornerstone of Catholic primary and lower secondary education in Bergen.

The school welcomes approximately 340 students annually, spanning from 1st to 10th grade.

The school is a member of the Association of Christian Free Schools (KFF) and operates under public supervision by the Norwegian Directorate of Education.

Public grants, in accordance with the Private Schools Act, cover a significant portion of operating expenses, though tuition is generally considered quite expensive (the school does have a reputation of being among Bergen’s best, after all).

The school’s students often rank among the top Bergen schools when it comes to national-level performance in subjects such as English, reflecting its dedication to educational excellence.

You can find out more about St. Paul’s admission rules and tuition on the school’s website.

Rudolf Steiner School

In 1929, Bergen became home to one of Norway’s earliest Rudolf Steiner Schools, marking the city’s introduction to Steiner education.

 READ MORE: Can I take my kids out of their Norwegian school during term time for a holiday?

At the heart of the Steiner pedagogy lies a commitment to nurturing the whole person, encompassing intellectual, emotional, and practical development.

In Steiner schools, subjects such as art and practical skills are equally important alongside traditional academic disciplines, fostering an engaging learning environment.

The school combines state funding (85 percent) with parental contributions (15 percent) to sustain its operations. At the time of writing, the parental contribution rates were as follows:

  • For a single child in grades 1 to 4: 34,000 kroner per year, divided into ten semesters.
  • For a single child in grades 5 to 7: 35,000 kroner per year, divided into ten semesters.
  • For a single child in grades 8 to 10: 36,160 kroner per year, divided into ten semesters.

Parents have the option to apply for reduced parental payments. To do so, they must submit their application by July 1st for the following school year.

Bergen Private Gymnasium

Situated at Lars Hilles gate 15, Bergen Private Gymnasium (BPG) offers state-supported upper secondary schooling for up to 525 students.

Conveniently located just a short stroll from the central bus station, the school enjoys easy access from all directions, making it a convenient choice for students across Bergen.

BPG recently renovated its premises, and its classrooms are equipped with adjacent group rooms that facilitate both independent study and collaborative projects.

The school also features designated zones for socialising, and its auditorium provides a space for hosting lectures, concerts, and other events.

For the school year 2023/2024, Bergen Private Gymnasium has outlined a two-part fee structure.

The first part of the school fees is uniform for all students and amounts to 18,400 kroner per year. 

The second part of the school fees varies depending on the specific educational activities a student participates in.

These activities can include theatre visits, cinema outings, skiing days, activity days, field trips, and study trips abroad.

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