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Want to speak German? How to overcome the challenges holding you back

Of all the challenges that can come with being an expat, learning the language can be the most frustrating – and we don’t just mean the difficulties of dealing with der, die and das.

Want to speak German? How to overcome the challenges holding you back
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You just know mastering German would open many doors in terms of friendships, work and much more. But the difficulty of juggling language learning with working life as an expat can make it feel impossible.

Learning on your own can be a struggle – but classes in large groups may not give you the personal attention or connection you need. With the language school Lingoda, learning is focused on small groups that create a supportive atmosphere for each and every student.

Here, we look at three of the main challenges language learners face and how the Lingoda Language Marathon could help. 

Boost your language skills and find new motivation with the Lingoda Language Marathon

Time scarcity: feel too busy to learn?

For many expats, time is the most precious of all commodities. Between meetings-that-could-have-been-emails, a hectic work schedule and all the various appointments that bureaucracies demand, the number of hours in the day seems fewer than for most people.

Mastering German (or whatever the local language is where you live) would make life immeasurably easier as you navigate work, friendships and the delights of bureaucracy. But if you’re feeling as if you lack the time, you’re far from alone.

As Kayla Hodges, an American expat in Stuttgart, explains: “It’s a real question of how to find the time and the motivation to keep going. The Ausländerbehörde (immigration office) wants to see I’m making enough money to support myself, so I spend more time working than learning the language.”

Many language schools attempt to cater for expats with evening classes, but sometimes they don’t fit in with your busy lifestyle – or energy levels! Many people would appreciate a more flexible solution.

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Finding the right level of pressure …

Pressure is also a major obstacle to language learning. It can come from yourself as well as others – either in the form of too much, or too little. We’re all very different in the way we work. But for many of us, feeling under pressure can lead to feelings of being overwhelmed or wanting to give up.

Some people find that there’s too little expectation to take part and engage in standard language school classes, while others find that being asked to decide between German’s three different genders, and four different cases when describing an object, is simply too much.

To make real progress, you need to learn in a way you can sustain beyond the short-term. That usually means you need to be held accountable in order to keep going. But in the beginning, just finding qualified teachers and the right class schedule for you can be an almighty struggle. 

Join the Lingoda Language Marathon to overcome the common barriers to language learning

Overcoming a lack of urgency

Finally, there’s the question of motivation. Depending on where you’re based, it can be all too easy to feel like you can get by with only English. In a big city like Berlin, Zurich or Vienna, there’s a never-ending number of people wanting to practice their English skills. It can be difficult to find the confidence to try out your German with them.

Many companies also do as much as they can to smooth the way for their employees, and this approach can make you feel you don’t need to learn the language to get by on a day-to-day basis. But think of the long-term benefits if you could push on to the next level. 

Speaking a good level of German (or another new language) can help you feel integrated not isolated, making it easier to branch beyond your circle of expat friends. 

One simple solution for many pitfalls 

Any single one of these problems can slow or halt anyone in their quest to learn a language. Combined, they can put the average expat off learning for years. As Marwa Yousef, another Stuttgart expat from Lebanon, says: “With work stress and life pressure, if you don’t see fast progress, you’ll lose motivation.”

Lingoda’s online classes are designed to help learners address these common pitfalls by balancing freedom to set your own learning timetable with a framework that will keep you making progress. Whenever you’ve got time, you can access a class taught by a native speaker, says Serena De Maio, Lingoda’s Chief Growth Officer.

“Our classes are available 24/7 and you can also access them from anywhere,” she says. “People can rediscover the power of team work to improve themselves and support each other. You can even make yourself more employable during this time of crisis by focusing on your language skills.” 

With Lingoda, you can learn German, French, Spanish, English or Business English. In terms of handling pressure, De Maio believes Lingoda’s model of small intimate classes of up to four students, provides the perfect middle ground. She states that students in these groups, “stop focusing on their own individual difficulties” and focus on the group – something that acts as a powerful motivator. 

Students are also currently competing in the Lingoda Team Challenge, which offers prizes and a charity element through the Lingoda scholarship programme.

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“We want to get people closer to one another during this period,” says De Maio. “We want people who have often been remote working to feel re-energised by focusing on a shared purpose with friends or colleagues. We’ve found that the chance to positively impact people’s lives through the charity element helps make our students feel even more motivated.”

Want to improve your language skills? Click here to find out more about the Lingoda Language Marathon and how it could help you overcome the challenges holding you back

 
 

LEARNING GERMAN

‘Forget about bilingual Kitas’: Key tips for raising bilingual kids in Germany

With greater numbers of international workers choosing to settle in Germany and raise a family, the question of how to best raise bilingual children is often considered. 

'Forget about bilingual Kitas': Key tips for raising bilingual kids in Germany

The Local asked its readers who have raised bilingual children in Germany to tell us how they managed to raise children who speak German in addition to their parent’s mother tongue. 

Trust the (school) system. 

One piece of advice was echoed by several readers: Trust the German education system to take care of teaching German through immersion. 

Siniša, 44, from Hesse, who speaks Croatian and English at home, told The Local: “Speak your native language at home. The school will ‘cover’ German and other languages.”

Steve, 55, who lives in Munich and speaks English and Spanish with his daughter agrees.

“Be consistent and raise your child in your native tongue. At a local school, they will learn German quickly,” he said.

Chris, 44, from Hamburg, who speaks English with his children, backed the idea of leaving kids’ schools to take charge of teaching them German.

“Get the kids into the German education system as early as possible and let them learn themselves from native speakers. As a bonus, they’ll pick it up quickly and not pick up a ‘non-German’ accent either,” he said.

Read more: ‘Multilingualism is an enrichment’ – The challenges of raisin bilingual kids in Germany

Readers also noted that even in the preschool stage, children can handle multiple languages. 

Julie, 41, who lives in Hamburg and speaks English and Italian at home, said: “Relax and go with the flow. Don’t get hung up on finding bilingual Kitas for toddlers if they already get significant exposure to the non-German language at home. Languages seem to develop in different spurts at different speeds.”

However, liaising with schools in Germany was noted as an essential skill. 

Kim, 46, based in Sindelfingen, with a family speaking both English and German, said: “It’s essential for at least one parent to understand German when children attend a German school. They can help explain language and cultural differences. They can also help with administrative matters and even homework.”

Maintain the mother tongue.

While readers were keen to encourage parents to trust the immersion process that German schools provide, they were also quick to advise a concerted effort to maintain speaking the mother tongue in and around the home. 

“For international parents, I think it’s very important that their children do not lose touch with their mother tongue, as it is a very special part of their identity,” said Prashanth, 42, who lives in Munich.

Anne-Marie, 52, from Frankfurt, who speaks ‘Singlish’ (Singaporean English) with her children, stated that it’s essential to be firm.

“Speak in your mother tongue to your kids from the day they are born. Be consequent about it, even in front of other people who do not speak your mother tongue,” she said.

Karl, 44, who lives in Celle and who speaks English and the indigenous American Ute language with his children, said getting family on board is important. 

“Communicate with all family members your decision, intentionally speak all of the languages, when possible provide translations so family members present are not excluded from conversations,” he said.

Charles, 40, from Berlin, even stated that speaking German at home may prove detrimental: “Don’t speak your own mediocre German with them. It may be hard to see them speaking another language as their more comfortable primary language than your own.”

Charles, who speaks English at home, added: “Find books and shows to share with them in your native language to continue the shared experience.”

Read More: What foreign parents should know about German schools

Just let it happen with the kids…

Sometimes, it seems, becoming bilingual takes care of itself. 

Paul, 40, from Munich, married to a German, said: “Our oldest just started speaking English one day around age 3. She had heard so much she could understand and just started talking. 

“The twins are starting to speak more and more English. It wasn’t a problem since she was fluent in both by age 4. I advise patience and not expecting perfection at a young age.

Crystal, 38, who lives in Nuremberg and speaks English at home, responded: “At first, my main concern was getting as much German into our lives as possible so my son would be ready for Grundschule. 

“Now I’m swinging the other way. My advice is to try to relax. There are always other things to worry about, and kids learn so much really quickly.”

…but also challenge yourself

Finally, respondents to The Locals’ survey repeated that raising bilingual children is something that requires a degree of effort – on the parent’s behalf. 

J.K, 40, who lives in Hanau and speaks English and Telugu at home, told The Local: “Language is very important for the kids to grow in a culture. 

“Parents should facilitate situations around the kid to better integrate locally. Parents (at least one) should be able to speak German at a level better than B1. 

“If not, supporting kids in their education is difficult, and this will hamper their chances of reaching a higher education level.”

Read More: Six surprising facts about Germany’s school system

Moreno, 40, who lives in Munich and speaks Portuguese with his children, was firm in his advice: “Don’t choose the easy way for you, parents. Don’t hide in your language community bubble. 

“If you intend to live in Germany for a long time, put your kids in German schools and get them in touch with the German community.

“If you don’t speak German like me, deal with it. But don’t transfer your problem to your kids.”

Have we missed any crucial advice for raising bilingual children in Germany? Tell us in the comments section below.

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