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How to make friends with other parents in Norway

Many newcomers to Norway dream of building friendships with fellow parents who understand the experiences and trials of parenthood. We've put together a roadmap to make the process easier.

Hiking group
Building friendships with other parents in Norway provides invaluable support, advice, and resources as families acclimate to their new surroundings. Photo by Matt Heaton on Unsplash

Whether relocating for work opportunities, education, or personal reasons, the transition to a new environment brings a number of challenges and adjustments – from a foreign language and different cultural and social norms to a specific job market and (often) harsh climate.

This is particularly true for parents, who, upon moving, are tasked with navigating unfamiliar territories (such as the Norwegian education system) while ensuring the well-being of their children.

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Therefore, it’s not surprising that many newcomers to Norway desire to establish connections and find a support network with fellow parents in their adopted homeland.

Building friendships with other parents not only fosters a sense of belonging and camaraderie but also provides invaluable support, advice, and resources as families acclimate to their new surroundings.

Additionally, developing friendships with local parents opens doors to opportunities for social engagement, cultural exchange, and mutual support.

One of the key things is to know where to look.

After-school activities and hobbies

Norwegian society encourages parental involvement in extracurricular activities to a much higher degree than many other European countries.

While this might be somewhat exhausting (and expensive) at times, it provides parents with an excellent opportunity to meet other parents with similar interests and values.

READ MORE: Settling in Norway: Five places to meet new people and make friends

Whether cheering on your child at a soccer match, attending a school concert together, or participating in school or club flea markets, these experiences create opportunities for bonding.

The atmosphere at such events is usually brimming with positive energy, and you’ll often find that the people you meet there will be much more open and communicative than your regular Norwegian (or at least the stereotype of your regular Norwegian), so use the opportunity to strike up conversations.

Local get-together sessions

There are a number of regular get-together sessions in most Norwegian towns and cities where parents with young children gather for playtime and social interaction.

These sessions often include activities like singing – for example, in the Austevoll Municipality in Vestland County, new parents gather to sing traditional Norwegian songs to their young children, while multiple parish churches in Bergen offer similar gatherings in a more religious but still laidback setting – as well as storytelling, and arts and crafts.

All of these activities provide international parents opportunities to connect with other parents in a relaxed local setting.

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Parenting classes offer insights into the various stages of parenthood, covering topics from pregnancy to postpartum care – and more. Photo by Mimi Thian on Unsplash

Parenting classes

In some regions of Norway, municipalities offer parenting classes and seminars for expecting and new parents.

Note that this is not the case in all parts of Norway, and you might need to go private (which means you’ll need to pay for courses) if you want to prepare for parenthood, especially in the prenatal segment of your parenthood journey (at the time of writing, a 2-hour class for expecting parents was priced at 1900 kroner in Bergen, western Norway).

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Depending on the workshop, you’ll learn more about what to expect before, during, and after birth and receive valuable tips on enhancing parent-child communication and strengthening family relationships.

At these programs, you’ll meet like-minded parents who are in a similar situation to yours. This will make it easier to build connections, as you’ll share both concerns and interests.

Join online groups

There are a number of social media groups where parents connect with other parents in their area to exchange advice, recommendations, and local parenting resources.

The “Foreldre for foreldre” and “Foreldre & Barn” Facebook groups are both great examples of this.

Just make sure to find a municipality-specific group if possible (you can often find the right fit by Googling or searching “foreldre” along with the name of your municipality on Facebook or Google).

Through online platforms like this, you’ll be able to connect with other parents, arrange playdates, and stay updated on community events and initiatives that will help you socialize with others.

Hiking forest

Expand your social network and immerse yourself in the community by becoming part of a local family hiking group, which are quite big in Norway. Photo by Juliane Liebermann on Unsplash

Engage in classic Norwegian recreational activities

If you want to broaden your social circle and integrate into the local community, joining a local hiking group for families, where parents and children explore scenic trails and enjoy outdoor adventures together, is a great option.

These outings not only promote physical activity and nature appreciation but also provide opportunities for parents to connect with others who share a passion for outdoor recreation and family-friendly activities – which many Norwegians do, to a borderline obsessive extent.

So, prepare the necessary hiking apparel for your family and be ready to strike up a conversation with another parent.

Stick with the hobbies you know

While doing new things is often fun and exciting, sticking to your year-long hobbies will also give you many opportunities to meet new parents in Norway.

Whether you’re into Sci-Fi, board games, soccer, or martial arts, if you join a local group or club after moving to Norway, sooner or later, you’ll meet a parent who shares your interests.

READ MORE: How to have a fulfilling social life in Norway without breaking the bank

After a while, you’ll likely start hanging out even outside of your hobby (just remember to show initiative and ask for that coffee meet-up or dinner after your training session – being proactive tends to pay off).

As long as you’re approachable, listen attentively, and express genuine interest in getting to know others, the chosen avenue for meeting people won’t matter that much, as you’ll put yourself in a great position for friendships can flourish organically regardless of whether you take part in activities, parenting workshops, or online platforms.

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Five reasons to retire in Norway

With its majestic landscapes, robust health and welfare systems, and overall high quality of life, Norway is a dream retirement country for many. These are the top reasons why it's an excellent pick for retirement.

Five reasons to retire in Norway

Norway regularly tops the list of dream destinations for retirement.

In 2023, a Natixis study – which examined healthcare offerings and life expectancy, among other things – declared Norway the best country in the world to retire in 2024.

EXPLAINED: Can you move to Norway to retire?

If the idea of spending your retirement years basking in the sun on a tropical beach doesn’t appeal to you, and you’re more drawn to the majestic – and occasionally chilly – landscapes of Norway, there are plenty of reasons to consider this Scandinavian country as your retirement haven.

Whether it’s the allure of its rugged nature, the progressive society, or the robust economy, Norway offers a compelling alternative to the typical retirement settings.

A healthcare system that is (at times) the envy of the world

When it comes to health, it’s hard to find a report that doesn’t describe Norway in outstanding terms on most key indicators.

The latest “Health at a Glance” report from the OECD for 2023 shows that Norway is doing pretty well compared to other countries in terms of both health outcomes and care.

The country outperforms the OECD average in 83 percent of health indicators.

Life expectancy in Norway is 83.2 years, almost three years longer than the OECD average. The rates of preventable and treatable deaths are notably lower in Norway than in most countries, and while a small percentage of Norwegians rate their health as poor, it’s still close to the average.

When it comes to the quality of healthcare, Norway scores better than the OECD average in nearly 58 percent of measured aspects. Every Norwegian is covered when it comes to core healthcare services, and a high percentage of the population is satisfied with the availability and quality of medical care.

Norway also invests heavily in healthcare resources, spending more per capita on health than the OECD average and employing more healthcare professionals.

If you’re curious about what foreigners think about Norway’s healthcare system, make sure to read this article, in which The Local’s readers in Norway share their experiences of the Nordic country’s healthcare system.

Expect a high quality of life

In the 2023 Natixis study, Norway has been ranked as the second-best country globally for quality of life, with exceptionally high scores for safety and environmental quality.

Norway was also recently recognized as the seventh-happiest country in the world according to its 2024 World Happiness Ranking, boasting a happiness score of 7.30.

This rating considers several critical indicators, such as happiness levels, air quality, water and sanitation, overall environmental health, and biodiversity, which collectively paint a pretty positive picture of life in Norway.

Other data sets, such as the one on Numbeo, a global database of user-contributed data about cities and countries, point to a quality of life index score of 190.58.

This score is calculated based on several factors, including purchasing power, safety, climate, cost of living, average commute times, and pollution levels.

However, the relatively high living costs remain one of the main pain points for most people moving to Norway.

It’s a safe country

In the 2023 Global Peace Index, Norway ranked 24th out of 163 countries – a pretty solid position, given that 1 represents the most peaceful and 163 the least.

While it didn’t top the charts like its Nordic neighbours Iceland, Denmark, and Finland, who came in at 1st, 2nd, and 13th, respectively, Norway still outpaced Sweden, which landed at 28th.

IN STATS: How safe is Norway in comparison to similar countries?

Despite dropping six spots from the year before, Norway remained among the top 15 safest countries in Europe, ranking 15th out of 36.

Norway is viewed as relatively peaceful, scoring 1.314 out of 5 in perceived criminality. This is comparable to Denmark’s score and better than Sweden’s, showing a low level of crime compared to many of its peers.

Norway also boasts an impressive record in handling violent crime, scoring the best possible mark, 1 out of 5, which it shares with other Nordic countries, although Sweden scored slightly higher at 2.

The country’s low homicide rate further underscores its peaceful standing. According to the UN Office on Drugs and Crime, Norway had only 0.5 homicides per 100,000 people in 2021, placing it 180th among 205 countries worldwide.

This rate is less than half of those seen in neighbouring Finland and Sweden and even lower than in Denmark.

A clean – and beautiful – natural environment

Norway consistently ranks as one of the cleanest countries in the world.

In 2020, it secured the 8th spot on the 2020 Environmental Performance Index (EPI) with an EPI score of 77.7, and in 2022, it was in 20th place on the same index with an EPI score of 59.30 out of 180 countries.

This index evaluates how effectively countries maintain air, land, and water quality to enhance human health.

With a high EPI score, Norway stands out as environmentally conscious. It is often commended for its efforts to protect natural resources, with a strong focus on marine ecosystems (despite its status as an oil industry titan).

Beyond its environmental efforts, Norway’s natural beauty is virtually unparalleled, offering some of the most spectacular landscapes in the world.

The country is home to the pristine fjords of its west coast, such as Geirangerfjord and Sognefjord, renowned for their deep blue waters and steep cliffs.

The Lofoten Islands in the north provides a stunning display of islets, mountains, and picturesque fishing villages (if you’re planning a trip to the archipelago, you can find The Local’s recommendations on some of the best things to do here).

Additionally, Norway’s ancient forests and numerous lakes add to its diverse natural attractions, making it not only one of the cleanest but also one of the most visually captivating places on earth.

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