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The most common culture shocks for foreign parents in Norway 

When it comes to raising kids in Norway, there are quite a few things considered normal that can leave foreigners with raised eyebrows. 

Pictured is a baby in a pram.
There are a number of culture shocks in Norway that will catch parents off guard. Pictured is a baby in a pram. Photo by photo nic on Unsplash

Food choices 

Plenty of schools and kindergartens across the country don’t serve warm food to students. Instead, packed lunches offered by both schools and kindergartens are the go-to choice. 

This can come as somewhat of a shock to parents, especially in the winter when children are expected to play outside. 

The kind of foods offered can also raise some annoyance from parents, as ultra-processed items such as “bacon cheese” in a tube will be served on a slice of bread. 

Ultra-sugary and salty foods being on offer are also another common complaint. 

Babies sleeping outside in the winter 

In the Nordic countries, it is common for parents to leave their babies asleep outside in prams during the winter. 

This comes as a shock for two reasons. Firstly, many nervous parents may not feel safe leaving their child alone outside where they are originally from—or they may be put off by the potential judgement of other parents. 

Secondly is the fact that the winters in Norway are pretty cold. 

In fact, when it’s too cold (-10c and below), parents are advised not to leave their children outdoors as babies have a harder time regulating their body temperature, so they are more at risk of hypothermia. 

If it isn’t too cold, you can expect to see parents leave their children in a pram while they run into a store and grab something quickly. 

Some sleep experts say there may be some health benefits, such as deeper sleep. 

Plenty of outdoors time 

Perhaps Norwegians’ general love for the outdoors can be attributed to them starting from an early age. 

As we hinted at earlier, kids are expected to get plenty of time outdoors. In the winter, kids are sent out to play unless it is extremely cold. There will even be special field trips and outdoor days all year round. 

There are even special kindergartens that place a special emphasis on being outside. 

This focus on the outdoors means that some kids may be given the responsibility of using tools such as camping knives from an early age. 

Another shock may come in the form of how much all this gear for hiking, skiing and camping will set families back. 

This emphasis on being outdoors means many children are allowed to play outside and take themselves to and from school at an earlier age than in other countries. 

Party etiquette 

A core part of Norwegian society is built on inclusiveness, and this extends to birthday parties.

While in some countries you can expect to only invite your children’s friends to a party, in Norway, this could be considered rude. 

Instead, you will probably be expected to invite your child’s entire class or, at the very least, all the children of your child’s own gender.  

Schools may even have their own policy on the rules to ensure that as few children as possible are left out.  

Long parental leave 

Parents in Norway are typically entitled to a total of 12 months’ leave before and after the birth. These 12 months include the opportunity for the mother to take leave for up to 12 weeks during the pregnancy and six weeks for the mother after the birth. 

This will shock some, where parental leave can be as low as 12 weeks of unpaid leave. 

In addition to these 12 months, each of the parents is entitled to 1 year’s leave for each birth. This leave must be taken immediately after the first year of leave. 

In Norway, you are also entitled to parental benefits while you are on leave. This means many parents have the opportunity to spend quality time with their children that they otherwise wouldn’t have been able to—at least without significant financial pressure. 

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Five useful things to know before you move to Norway

Moving to a new country comes with plenty of unexpected lessons and surprises. Norway is no different, and here are six things you'll need to know before the move. 

Five useful things to know before you move to Norway

Patience 

While you may presume Norway is an efficient society, and it can be once you get the ball rolling, plenty of patience will be required. 

This is because fixing the essentials can take quite a while. In recent years, long waiting times for residence permits have become common. 

Furthermore, once you are granted residence and given an identity number, setting up things like a bank account could take weeks or months rather than days. 

When it comes to getting a job, interview stages can take a while to get going, especially if periods like the summer holidays or Easter slow things down. 

A shortage of GPs and long patient lists make doctor appointments difficult. Meanwhile, if you decide to make a home in the country, you will likely need to live there for five to eight years before becoming eligible for citizenship. 

READ ALSO: What paperwork do you need to open a bank account in Norway

Norwegian flags 

Norwegians take great pride in their country, and as a result, their flag also features quite prominently. 

If you live in an apartment block, you can normally tell when it’s a neighbour’s birthday, as they will have the Norwegian flag on display. 

Norway’s flag is also featured prominently in other celebrations and festivities. The most famous of these is May 17th or Constitution Day. However, most stores will have year-round sections where it is possible to buy Norwegian flag decorations.

Week numbers 

This one can be frustrating to come to terms with, and for many, it won’t make much sense even after living in the country for a while. 

Norwegians use week numbers to refer to points in time, either in the past of the future. It’s common for you to hear phrases like “We will be closed in week 32, but reopen in week 33 or “The project needs to be finished by week 42

It’ll be typical for a local to rattle of week numbers and expect you to know exactly where in the calendar they are talking about. 

READ ALSO: Why Norwegians use week numbers instead of dates

Reserved locals can make it hard to make friends

One of the toughest aspects of moving somewhere new is establishing a new network of friends. 

Small talk isn’t really huge in Norway, and the locals are known for their reserved and private nature. 

Its unlikely that you’ll be striking up conversations on the bus or that you’ll progress beyond more than a polite greeting with most of your neighbours. 

This is done to respect privacy rather than to be rude or cold. 

However, this can make making friends difficult as plenty of locals don’t make too many more friends in adult life and are content with their circle.

Still, it’s entirely possible to form lifelong friendships with the locals, especially if you just give it time and have something like a shared sport or hobby to break the ice. 

READ ALSO: Settling in Norway: Five places to meet new people and make friends

Festival celebrations 

Norwegians love to celebrate, and that’s why you’ll soon be marking your calendar with events like sankthansaften or syttende mai

The best thing about these festivals or days is that they come with a whole host of specific traditions or foods. 

Sankthansaften see’s people gather round bonfires to celebrate the summer solstice, it’s also typical for children to collect wild flowers to put underneath their pillows so they can dream about their future partner. 

Santa Lucia is marked every year on December 13th, and some people make special buns and see children visit old people’s homes for light processions. 

Then they are the more individual family traditions that surround New Year’s, Easter, Christmas and May 17th. 

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