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La Belle Vie: The beret cliché and other signs of French style

From French dress codes to overrated tourist sites and how France will mark the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings, this week's La Belle Vie newsletter offers you an essential starting point for eating, talking, drinking and living like a French person.

La Belle Vie: The beret cliché and other signs of French style
A France fan wears a beret with his face painted in the national colours during a match between France and Albania at the Velodrome stadium in Marseille on June 15, 2016. (Photo by Valery HACHE / AFP)

La Belle Vie is our regular look at the real culture of France – from language to cuisine, manners to films. This newsletter is published weekly and you can receive it directly to your inbox, by going to your newsletter preferences in “My account”.

My five-year anniversary of living in France is coming up this September, and in the last few years I have acquired one very useless skill. I can spot, with relative accuracy, tourists from a mile away. 

A lot of times, it comes down to facial expressions and dress. Tourists might have confused expressions while carefully navigating with Google Maps; they might sport a backpack or be dressed differently.

Another tell-tale sign is the beret, which I would argue has had a resurgence since Emily in Paris first started airing. In Paris, I’ve noticed that the French headgear is more common amongst tourists than the French themselves, which begs the question of why we even associate berets with France in the first place.

Why are berets so synonymous with France?

I’d like to say that there is no single way to dress like a French person, though maybe I’m missing some of the cues because people can often tell I am foreign before even hearing my accent. 

The other day, I went into a French pastrami sandwich shop (out of curiosity), and before I opened my mouth to order, the server spoke to me in clear English: “What would you like today?” I responded in French, asking how he had deduced my nationality so quickly, and he shrugged “Most of our customers are foreigners”.

I would say I have changed my appearance somewhat since I moved to France – I wear less makeup (with the exception of red lipstick) and avoid athleisure outside of the gym. But I refuse to give up bright colours, even if that makes me look non-French forever.

How to dress like a French woman: Five tips to remember (and five to forget)

France is a popular location for tourists – it consistently ranks in the top countries in the world to visit. 

There is one nationality that stands above the others. People from this country make roughly 13 million trips to France in the course of a year (some of which may be the same people making multiple trips).

Brits, Americans or Germans – who visits France the most?

When visiting a new country, it can be tricky to decipher which tourist attractions are actually worthwhile and which ones are crowded and expensive. We’re asking readers to help us write up a guide.

If you have a moment, fill out our short survey on which tourist sites you consider to be the most overrated, and where would you recommend visiting instead.

TELL US: What is France’s most overrated tourist site?

One event that promises to offer a lot is the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings in France. There are dozens of events scheduled across Normandy, so there will be something for everyone.

From historical re-enactments and parachute drops to art exhibits, parades and live music, people of all ages will be able to learn something about the important moment in both French and global history.

What to expect for the 80th anniversary of D-Day in France

And if you’re looking for a heartwarming love story, look no further than that of US Air Force veteran Harold Terens, aged 100. After surviving several near death experiences, Terens will be honoured for his participation in the D-Day landings this June. 

A few days afterwards, he will exchange vows with his bride-to-be, close to the beaches where thousands of soldiers waded ashore in 1944. The town’s mayor will preside over the ceremony.

US centenarian WWII vet to marry in Normandy 80 years after Allied landing

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La Belle Vie: Avoiding ‘Paris Syndrome’ and the best parts of a French summer

From long summer days in France to the best (and worst beaches) and the mysterious 'Paris Syndrome', this week's La Belle Vie newsletter offers you an essential starting point for eating, talking, drinking and living like a French person.

La Belle Vie: Avoiding 'Paris Syndrome' and the best parts of a French summer

La Belle Vie is our regular look at the real culture of France – from language to cuisine, manners to films. This newsletter is published weekly and you can receive it directly to your inbox, by going to your newsletter preferences in “My account”.

The month of June is approaching, which is also my favourite time of year in France. Not because of the warmer weather – though I welcome that – but thanks to the long days. 

There is something freeing about the sunset being after 9.30pm. Even though we don’t technically have more free time in June than we do in December, the long days do give the impression of another full day to yourself, even if you already worked from 9-5pm.

9 of the best things about summer in France

The beach is another highlight of French summers, and we are spoiled for choice with France’s thousands of kilometres of coastline.

In the south-west’s Nouvelle-Aquitaine region alone there were 55 beaches listed in the 2024 Blue Flag (Pavillon Bleu in French) ranking, which is the label that certifies that a beach has met environmental and clean water standards. 

On the other hand, some French beaches might look appealing from the outside, but in reality they suffer from pollution and run-off. To help narrow things down, we zoomed in on the best (and worst) from south-western France.

The best (and worst) beaches in south-west France

When I use the word ‘beach’ I should probably mention that I’m not only talking about the ones located along France’s coast. There are plenty of lakeside beaches that are absolutely worth visiting this summer. 

Later this summer, my friends and I have plans to go hiking for three days in the Alps near Grenoble. The area we picked is known for its mountain lakes, which are crystal clear. I’m not sure I’ll be brave enough to dive in, as the water will be absolutely frigid (they’re filled with melted snow). 

Luckily there are plenty of other (warmer) lakes to choose from.

Lakes, reservoirs and rivers: Where are France’s best inland beaches?

The accessibility of mountain hikes in France is one of my favourite parts about summer. The country’s train system makes it easy to travel from any of the three largest cities (Paris, Marseille and Lyon) to the Alps. The Pyrenees are also quite accessible, especially if you live in the fourth largest city (Toulouse).

If you’re hesitating because you do not have a tent, camper stove or sleeping bag, then do not fear. You can always stay at one of the refuges – these are kind of like mountain hostels. Many of them also give you a delicious home-cooked meal, which is very necessary after a day of exercising. 

Everything you need to know about staying in a French mountain refuge

But if mountains, lakes and beaches are not your thing, then there are still other options to make the most of French summer. 

From old rockers to classic theatre, via Celtic heritage and fireworks to big sporting occasions, we’ve put together a list of over two dozen of our favourite French summer festivals.

26 unmissable summer 2024 festivals and events in France

Most people can pinpoint a time in their lives when they have felt homesick. It’s not a pleasant feeling.

But in Paris, severe homesickness has a name – the ‘Paris Syndrome’ – and by some accounts it can be so severe that it involves panic attacks and hallucinations. Psychiatrists have been debating for years whether it really should be classified as an illness, 

While there is still some debate as to whether or not it should be considered an illness, psychiatrists do agree on the cause: a gulf between expectations and reality.

What is ‘Paris Syndrome’ and are some nationalities more susceptible?

One of the best ways to avoid ‘Paris Syndrome’ is to come in with realistic expectations. You can do that by reading books, consuming media, listening to podcasts and watching movies and shows that give a more realistic portrayal of the city.

Unfortunately, Emily in Paris probably does not fit into this category. 

The 10 best things about Paris that the movies never show

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