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GERMAN WORD OF THE DAY

German word of the day: Toben

You’re as likely to hear this word on a stormy day as you are around small children.

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Why do I need to know toben?

This versatile verb can be used in a variety of settings, encompassing emotions ranging from rage to joy.

What does it mean?

Toben has two main meanings. The first essentially implies to go wild, whether that be with enthusiasm or anger. An audience of a Taylor Swift concert could vor Begeisterung toben (“go wild with excitement”) but a person can also vor Wut toben, or rage with anger when they are extraordinarily upset about something. 

As those in northern Germany probably know well, toben is also applied to a wild wind or other strong natural phenomena like a hurricane. It’s probably not the most pleasant time to head outside when der Wind tobt (the wind rages).

All German-speaking parents will be very familiar with the second meaning, which simply means to frolic around. It’s used for any sort of animated play, including that which becomes as unruly as the stormy wind. At this level, you could also say Radau machen (making a racket).

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According to German dictionary DWDS, usage of the word dates all the way back to around 800 BC, stemming from the word tobōn, which similarly meant to be beside oneself, usually with rage or another intense emotion.

Here’s how it’s used:

Er tobte vor Wut, als er erfuhr, dass er zu Unrecht gekündigt worden war.

He raged with anger when he found out he was unfairly terminated from his job.

Über der Nordsee tobte ein Orkan, als die tobenden Wellen gegen die Felsen schlagen.

A hurricane raged over the North Sea, as wild waves crashed on the rocks.

Die Kinder tobten stundenlang auf dem neuen Spielplatz herum.

The children frolicked around for hours at the new playground. 

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GERMAN WORD OF THE DAY

German phrase of the day: Gönn dir

This German expression is used in everyday colloquial conversation, especially among young people.

German phrase of the day: Gönn dir

Why do I need to know gönn dir?

Because you’ll hear this phrase a lot in everyday conversations in Germany especially among young people, and it’s often used in advertisements. 

What does it mean?

Gönn dir is a handy little German expression which essentially means ‘treat yourself’, ‘do something good for yourself’, ‘you deserve it’ or even ‘go for it’.

It comes from the German verb gönnen, which is a pretty complicated verb because it doesn’t translate perfectly to English. The infinitive is “jemandem (oder: sich) etwas gönnen”, which normally means ‘to treat someone (or allow oneself) to something’. You may hear “Ich gönne es dir” or “Gönn’ ich dir” but “Gönn dir” is the more shortened colloquial version that has increased in usage over time. 

The expression is basically a message of support for someone’s decision to treat themselves to something nice. 

If you want to use it, you have to make sure it’s in the appropriate setting. It isn’t suitable for formal communication – for instance during a serious phone call with the tax office or your boss (unless you’re good friends). 

It’s a good one to bring out during a text chat. If your German pal is finally booking that weekend trip away – you can write a quick ‘gönn dir!’ to express that you’re very happy for them and approve of this move. It’s often spoken in a positive way with no envy involved but it depends on the context and tone – the verb gönnen can also be used negatively. 

This phrase ‘gönn dir’ has gone mainstream and you’ll find it outside supermarkets and other shops or on advertisements, urging people to buy products as a treat for themselves.

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It’s also been used by pop stars in recent years. German rapper Kontra K released his song Gönn Dir in 2013, while TikTok star Twenty4Tim released a song of the same name in 2023. 

Use it like it like this: 

Nach acht Stunden arbeit erst mal Essen bestellt und jetzt bisschen Binge-Watching… – After eight hours of work, I’ve ordered some food and now a bit of binge-watching…

Ja, gönn dir!  – Yeah, treat yourself! 

Ich gönn mir heute meinen Lieblingsschokoriegel.

I’m treating myself to my favourite chocolate bar today.

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