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ITALIAN TRADITIONS

Why there’s nothing unlucky about Friday the 13th in Italy

Unlucky for some, but not for Italians. Here's why this ominous date isn't a cause for concern in Italy - but Friday the 17th is.

Why there's nothing unlucky about Friday the 13th in Italy
You're unlikely to see people avoid using the number 13 in Italy. But 17, on the other hand... (Photo by Kind and Curious on Unsplash)

When Friday the 13th rolls around, many of us from English-speaking countries might reconsider any potentially risky plans. And it’s not exactly a popular date for weddings in much of the western world.

But if you’re in Italy, you don’t need to worry about it.

There’s no shortage of strongly-held superstitions in Italian culture. But the idea of Friday the 13th being an inauspicious date is not among them.

Though the ‘unlucky 13’ concept is not unknown in Italy – likely thanks to the influence of American film and TV – here the number is in fact usually seen as good luck, if anything.

The number 17, however, is viewed with suspicion and Friday the 17th instead is the supposedly unlucky date to beware of.

Just as some Western airlines avoid including the 13th row on planes, you might find number 17 omitted on Italian planes, street numbering, hotel floors, and so on – so even if you’re not the superstitious type, it’s handy to be aware of.

The reason for this thought to be because in Roman numerals the number 17 (XVII) is an anagram of the Latin word VIXI, meaning ‘I have lived’: the use of the past tense apparently suggests death, and therefore bad luck.

Friday probably has a reputation as an unlucky day in Italy for the same reason as elsewhere: in Biblical tradition, the concept of unlucky Fridays comes from the fact that this was believed to be the day on which Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit; the day Cain murdered his brother, Abel; and the day Noah’s ark was needed in the Great Flood. In short, not much good happened on Fridays.

So don’t be surprised if, next time Friday 17th rolls around, you notice some Italian shops and offices closed per scaramanzia’.

But why then does 13 often have a positive connotation in Italy instead? Perhaps unsurprisingly, it’s to do with football.

Ever heard of Totocalcio? It’s a football pools betting system in which players long tried to predict the results of 13 different matches.

There were triumphant calls of ho fatto tredici! – ‘I’ve done thirteen’ – among those who got them all right. The popular expression soon became used in other contexts to mean ‘I hit the jackpot’ or ‘that was a stroke of luck!’

From 2004, the number of games included in Totocalcio rose to 14, but you may still hear winners shout ‘ho fatto tredici’ regardless.

Other common Italian superstitions include touching iron (not wood) for good luck, not toasting with a glass of water, and never pouring wine with your left hand.

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MOVING TO ITALY

Eight of the best books to read before moving to Italy

If you’re planning on upping sticks and moving to Italy, there are some reads that can help you get a useful insight into the nuances of life in the country. Please tell us your own recommendations.

Eight of the best books to read before moving to Italy

If you’d like to leave your own recommendation please tell us in the comments section or via the survey at the bottom of the page.

Il Bel Centro: A Year in the Beautiful Centre

Il Bel Centro (‘The Beautiful Centre’) is a journal-format account of American author Michelle Damiani and her family’s life in the small hilltop town of Spello, Umbria for a year.

The book gives a unique glimpse into what living in rural central Italy is like, exploring local customs, culinary traditions and community lore.

READ ALSO: Nine things to expect if you move to rural Italy

There are also details about the challenges faced by Damiani’s family, ranging from red tape and queues at the local post office to language difficulties and tough decisions about her children’s education.

Living In Italy: the Real Deal

This is an engaging and insightful account of Dutch author Stef Smulders and his partner’s relocation to the countryside south of Pavia, Lombardy.

It paints a vivid picture of the joys and challenges of life in northern Italy, including some amusing anecdotes and observations about experiencing the country as a straniero.

READ ALSO: ‘How we left the UK to open a B&B in a Tuscan village’

For those interested in buying property (and setting up a B&B) in Italy, it stores useful information and lots of practical advice along the way.

La Bella Figura: A Field Guide to the Italian Mind

In La Bella Figura (‘The Good Impression’) author and journalist Beppe Severgnini chooses to do away with idealised notions of Italy, giving a witty tour of the country and of Italians’ subconscious. 

The book explores some of the most paradoxical Italian habits, touching on the places where locals are most likely to reveal their true authentic self: airports, motorways and the office.

As Severgnini puts it, the book is an insight into how life in Italy can “have you fuming and then purring in the space of a hundred metres or ten minutes”.

The Sweetness of Doing Nothing

This book from Rome resident Sophie Mincilli explores the Italian philosophy of finding pleasure in small things, whether that be basking in the sun while sipping on a coffee, being immersed in nature…or simply being idle.

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A waiter serves coffee to customers at a cafe in Campo dei Fiori, central Rome, in 2009. Photo by ALBERTO PIZZOLI / AFP

The book shares suggestions and advice to help you savour life’s ordinary moments the Italian way.

Four Seasons in Rome

This is an account of US author Anthony Doerr’s full year in the Eternal City after receiving the Rome Prize – one of the most prestigious awards from the American Academy of Arts and Letters.

READ ALSO: Six things foreigners should expect if they live in Rome

The book charts the writer’s adventures in the capital: from visiting old squares and temples to taking his newborn twins to the Pantheon in December to wait for snow to fall through the oculus.

There are also very amusing details about Doerr’s interaction with local residents, including butchers, grocers and bakers.

Italian Neighbours: An Englishman in Verona

Manchester-born author Tim Parks wrote Italian Neighbours in 1992, but many, if not most of his observations about the delights and foibles of small town life in northern Italy are just as valid today as they were over 30 years ago.

The book chronicles Parks’s move to Montecchio, in the Verona province, and how he and his Italian wife became accustomed to the quirky habits of their new neighbours.

Parks is also the author of other bestselling books about life in Italy, including An Italian Education, which recounts the milestones in the life of the writer’s children as they go through the Italian school system, and Italian Ways, a journey through Italian culture and ways of life based on experiences made while travelling by train.

Extra Virgin

Originally published in 2000, worldwide bestseller Extra Virgin is an account of author Annie Hawes and her sister’s move to a rundown farmhouse in Diano San Pietro, a small village deep among the olive groves of Liguria’s riviera. 

The book is a fascinating tale of how the two British sisters adjusted to life among olive farmers and eccentric card-playing locals and a window into Liguria’s culinary and social traditions.

READ ALSO: Interview: ‘Having an olive grove takes a lot of guts, but it’s worth it’

Burnt by the Tuscan Sun

In Burnt by the Tuscan Sun (a play on bestselling book Under the Tuscan Sun by Frances Mayes) American blogger Francesca Maggi offers a series of humorous essays delving into some of the trials and tribulations of daily life in Italy. 

There are details about Italy’s notorious bureaucracy, bad drivers, quirky local habits and superstitions, and even the beloved mamma of every Italian household.

Which other essential reads would you recommend? Let us know in the comments section below or via the survey.

 

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