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LEARNING GERMAN

Eight eating habits that show you’re becoming German

Are you becoming a German? Check the list of eight German food habits to see where you stand.

Eight eating habits that show you're becoming German
A woman enjoying typical German 'Vollkornbrot' in Karlsruhe. Photo: DPA
Eating an egg for breakfast
 
Hard boiled eggs accompanied by a 'Salznäpfchen' (salt cup). Photo: DPA
 
You would think the saying would be “an egg a day keeps the doctor away” since so many Germans live that way.

Either squished onto your bread or spooned out of an “Eierbecher” (egg cup), eating a “gekochtest Ei” (a boiled egg), or “Kochei” as I call it, every morning is a very common thing.

Naturally, you eat it with a little salt, possible taken from a “Salznäpfchen” (salt cup). Many people even call it a “Frühstücksei” (breakfast egg).

If it is not during the week, then it is definitely enjoyed on the weekends during a stress-free breakfast.

Bringing your own lunch

A “Brotbox” with typically hearty bread. Photo: DPA

Everyone needs a lunch break.

Some people enjoy going out for lunch during their break, but many do not have the time to grab a bite to eat, or they simply don’t want to spend money on a rushed lunch break.

So they bring their own lunch.

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The typical German lunch is a “Stulle” (sandwich), brought in your “Brotbox” (breadbox), and then eaten at the desk.

Typically, you would eat “Graubrot” (grey bread) or “Körnerbrot” (grain bread) with butter and cheese for example – not like an American sandwich with white bread and mayonnaise.

My lunch always consisted of a “Stulle” which we also referred to as my “Schulbrot” (school bread). 

Coffee and cake at 4 pm

Cake and coffee time. Photo: DPA

Either at home or in a cafe, this is probably the most common German food habit.

It might be slightly outdated for the younger generation, and instead something which your grandparents were accustomed to, but it is not only an “old lady” thing. I personally love and practice this habit.

Simply meeting up for coffee to talk and possibly to enjoy a little gossip is called a “Kaffeeklatsch”.

When me and my family arrive home around 4pm after school, university or work we always have “Kaffee und Kuchen” (coffee and cake). We've been doing this for as long as I can remember.

We would usually buy cake at a bakery like Thoben, for example, or eat chocolate and cookies that we bought at the supermarket.

“Kaffee and Kuchen” does not mean that it has to be fancy confectionery cake or torte. Germans also love their “Gebäck” (pastries) which is often referred to as “Teilchen” (pastries). They are just as great for coffee and cake time.

On weekends we would often also eat homemade cake and invite my grandparents or our friends to join us.

Nowadays, even when I am home alone, I still eat sweets in the afternoon.

Eating bread, as long as it's not white

Tasty German bread. Photo: DPA

Germans love their bread. And for a good reason: it has substance!

Whether homemade or bought in a bakery, most households always have bread at home.

Homemade bread is also very common in many homes. And there is nothing better than coming home to the smell of freshly baked bread.

Typical German bread is usually not white but dark, and often contains grains and herbs which make it healthier and more satiating than white bread.

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Going to IKEA just to eat

Ikea advertising their Swedish breakfast. Photo: DPA

Whenever I go to Ikea, the best part of it is eating lunch there. The “Köttbullar” (Swedish meatballs) are to die for!

It has even gone so far as that many people only visit Ikea to eat breakfast and particularly lunch.

This holds especially true nowadays, amid an extended food offering. They not only serve breakfast, lunch, snacks, cake, and dinner but they also serve foods that please every taste and also vegetarian and vegan options. They also sell their products in a shop (even as frozen foods)!

Don’t be afraid of Hackepeter

Hannover butcher shop selling fresh Hackepeter. Photo: DPA

Many non-Germans are suspicious of “Hackepeter”, also called “Mett”, which refers to raw minced meat (usually pork).

But don’t be afraid, it’s perfectly safe to eat.

The best way to enjoy it, in my opinion, is topped with chopped onion, salt and pepper and served on a “Schrippe” (white role).

You can buy it in any supermarket in either their fresh meat selection or already packaged in the refrigerated shelf.

Drink Tee 24/7

German tea brand “Teekanne”. Photo: DPA

Apart from coffee, of course, Germans need their tea.

It can be drunk in the morning, in the evening or at night.

You can tell that Germans love tea because there are dozens of varieties to choose from! The cheapest teas even sell for around a euro, but you can of course purchase several brands for quite a lot more. 

Germans also have many unique varieties of tea for every mood, and every moment. It not only tastes great but is also good for your health.

Do you have a cough? Then drink “Husten- und Bronchialtee” (Cough- and bronchial tee). Coming down with a flu? Then there's Erkältungstee (cold tea). Are you tired? Then have a cup of “Muntermacher” (cheer-up/pick-me-up tea).

All in all, tea is good for every occasion.

Bring snacks on your birthday

German Schwarz-Weiß-Gebäck. Photo: picture alliance/Kathrin Runge/backenmachtgluecklich.de/dpa-tmn

In Germany, it is customary to bring snacks to work for everyone on your birthday.

Usually, you bring store bought chocolate, pralines or cookies. If you’re really a great (and generous) person, you will even bring homemade cake.

I have no idea how this originated. All I know is that it is another occasion to eat cake, and that’s fine by me.

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LEARNING GERMAN

‘Forget about bilingual Kitas’: Key tips for raising bilingual kids in Germany

With greater numbers of international workers choosing to settle in Germany and raise a family, the question of how to best raise bilingual children is often considered. 

'Forget about bilingual Kitas': Key tips for raising bilingual kids in Germany

The Local asked its readers who have raised bilingual children in Germany to tell us how they managed to raise children who speak German in addition to their parent’s mother tongue. 

Trust the (school) system. 

One piece of advice was echoed by several readers: Trust the German education system to take care of teaching German through immersion. 

Siniša, 44, from Hesse, who speaks Croatian and English at home, told The Local: “Speak your native language at home. The school will ‘cover’ German and other languages.”

Steve, 55, who lives in Munich and speaks English and Spanish with his daughter agrees.

“Be consistent and raise your child in your native tongue. At a local school, they will learn German quickly,” he said.

Chris, 44, from Hamburg, who speaks English with his children, backed the idea of leaving kids’ schools to take charge of teaching them German.

“Get the kids into the German education system as early as possible and let them learn themselves from native speakers. As a bonus, they’ll pick it up quickly and not pick up a ‘non-German’ accent either,” he said.

Read more: ‘Multilingualism is an enrichment’ – The challenges of raisin bilingual kids in Germany

Readers also noted that even in the preschool stage, children can handle multiple languages. 

Julie, 41, who lives in Hamburg and speaks English and Italian at home, said: “Relax and go with the flow. Don’t get hung up on finding bilingual Kitas for toddlers if they already get significant exposure to the non-German language at home. Languages seem to develop in different spurts at different speeds.”

However, liaising with schools in Germany was noted as an essential skill. 

Kim, 46, based in Sindelfingen, with a family speaking both English and German, said: “It’s essential for at least one parent to understand German when children attend a German school. They can help explain language and cultural differences. They can also help with administrative matters and even homework.”

Maintain the mother tongue.

While readers were keen to encourage parents to trust the immersion process that German schools provide, they were also quick to advise a concerted effort to maintain speaking the mother tongue in and around the home. 

“For international parents, I think it’s very important that their children do not lose touch with their mother tongue, as it is a very special part of their identity,” said Prashanth, 42, who lives in Munich.

Anne-Marie, 52, from Frankfurt, who speaks ‘Singlish’ (Singaporean English) with her children, stated that it’s essential to be firm.

“Speak in your mother tongue to your kids from the day they are born. Be consequent about it, even in front of other people who do not speak your mother tongue,” she said.

Karl, 44, who lives in Celle and who speaks English and the indigenous American Ute language with his children, said getting family on board is important. 

“Communicate with all family members your decision, intentionally speak all of the languages, when possible provide translations so family members present are not excluded from conversations,” he said.

Charles, 40, from Berlin, even stated that speaking German at home may prove detrimental: “Don’t speak your own mediocre German with them. It may be hard to see them speaking another language as their more comfortable primary language than your own.”

Charles, who speaks English at home, added: “Find books and shows to share with them in your native language to continue the shared experience.”

Read More: What foreign parents should know about German schools

Just let it happen with the kids…

Sometimes, it seems, becoming bilingual takes care of itself. 

Paul, 40, from Munich, married to a German, said: “Our oldest just started speaking English one day around age 3. She had heard so much she could understand and just started talking. 

“The twins are starting to speak more and more English. It wasn’t a problem since she was fluent in both by age 4. I advise patience and not expecting perfection at a young age.

Crystal, 38, who lives in Nuremberg and speaks English at home, responded: “At first, my main concern was getting as much German into our lives as possible so my son would be ready for Grundschule. 

“Now I’m swinging the other way. My advice is to try to relax. There are always other things to worry about, and kids learn so much really quickly.”

…but also challenge yourself

Finally, respondents to The Locals’ survey repeated that raising bilingual children is something that requires a degree of effort – on the parent’s behalf. 

J.K, 40, who lives in Hanau and speaks English and Telugu at home, told The Local: “Language is very important for the kids to grow in a culture. 

“Parents should facilitate situations around the kid to better integrate locally. Parents (at least one) should be able to speak German at a level better than B1. 

“If not, supporting kids in their education is difficult, and this will hamper their chances of reaching a higher education level.”

Read More: Six surprising facts about Germany’s school system

Moreno, 40, who lives in Munich and speaks Portuguese with his children, was firm in his advice: “Don’t choose the easy way for you, parents. Don’t hide in your language community bubble. 

“If you intend to live in Germany for a long time, put your kids in German schools and get them in touch with the German community.

“If you don’t speak German like me, deal with it. But don’t transfer your problem to your kids.”

Have we missed any crucial advice for raising bilingual children in Germany? Tell us in the comments section below.

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