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Why this Italian restaurant gives parents a discount for polite children

A family who enjoyed a meal out at their local restaurant on Sunday had a welcome surprise when they got the bill for their food: it included a five percent discount for their 'well-behaved children'.

Why this Italian restaurant gives parents a discount for polite children
File photo showing a family at a restaurant. Photo: monkeybusiness/Depositphotos

Antonio Ferrari, who runs the restaurant in Padua, northern Italy, told The Local that the discount was a way of showing his customers “we like having children here – as long as they behave”.

“When you get parents who are rude, the kids think they can do anything. They might climb on the tables with their shoes on, play in the bathroom and make a mess with the taps, or annoy the other customers,” explains Ferrari, who has been managing the eatery for 12 years.

“We don't often get well-behaved children,” he added, but said he and his staff make a conscious effort to welcome younger diners, often cooking them dishes that aren’t on the menu in order to cater for younger palettes.

“The restaurant is essentially an enoteca (winery). We don't have a children's menu or any other special provisions, but on Sundays, parents often come and bring their children,” said the 40-year-old restaurateur.

He explained that on Sunday, the table of six adults and five children aged around four to six years old were a “delight” to serve, and he was particularly impressed when, after finishing their meals, the children worked on their times tables and colouring books as the parents drank their wine.

His inspiration for the five percent discount came from a bar he had recently visited in Miami which used a similar scheme. It was also an alternative to saying something to the family, which he feared might offend either the family or other diners.

A picture of the receipt shared on Twitter shows the €13.05 discount.

“In Italy, we have a problem that people often feel judged, so I didn't want to say anything – even positive – that might be seen as judging someone's children or parenting,” said Ferrari. “I'd definitely offer the discount again, but I don't want to make it an official promotion or offer because that's not the point.”

He told The Local that the initiative had gained lots of attention from Italian media, which had “built it up” – perhaps because Italian eateries are better known for adding sneaky cover charges than discounts for exemplary customers.

Foreigners are particularly prone to being stung by the additional fees – usually for sitting at a table in cafes, rather than knocking back an espresso standing at the bar, as the locals do. This charge is usually around €1, but in the past, some cafe owners have been called out for hiking up that charge to catch out tourists who fail to scrutinize their menus.

In 2013, the news that a group of holidaymakers from the UK paid €64 for four ice-creams in Rome made global headlines – so much so they were later invited back to the capital by shame-faced authorities and treated like royalty.

But later that year when an American family of four complained at being charged €42 for ice cream, the bar's manager defended his pricing, telling The Local: “It's their fault…I advise foreigners to read the menu.”

And penalizing ill-mannered customers is an idea which has really taken off in France. One cafe became a social media hit when photos circulated of its menu, which charged less for customers who said 'please'.

The Nice cafe's manager told The Local: “I know people say that French service can be rude, but it's also true that customers can be rude when they're busy.”

While he said that he had never actually had to enforce the price scheme, the idea struck a chord in France, and plenty of other restaurants and cafes soon introduced tiered pricing based on manners.

READ MORE: How minding your manners in a French cafe can save you money

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Six of the most Italian non-alcoholic aperitivo drinks

As well as its most famous cocktails, Italy has a long tradition of making refreshing aperitivo drinks without the alcohol.

Six of the most Italian non-alcoholic aperitivo drinks

Italy’s favourite aperitivo-hour cocktails are known far beyond the country’s borders, so their names will probably be familiar to you whether you drink them or not.

But if you’re in Italy and not drinking alcohol, you might find yourself stumped when it comes time to order your aperitivo at the bar.

The first time I found myself in this situation, there was no menu. The waiter instead rattled off a long list of all the soft drinks available, most of which I’d never heard of, and I just picked something I thought sounded nice.

Luckily it turns out that Italy has some great options for an aperitivo analcolico. As well as ‘virgin’ versions of well-known cocktails, there are bitters, sodas and other Italian-made soft drinks that you’re unlikely to find anywhere else.

They might not be quite as iconic as the Aperol Spritz, but they’re as thoroughly Italian – plus, effortlessly ordering one of these will make you look like a true local.

SanBittèr

San Pellegrino’s SanBittèr is one of the most famous non-alcoholic Italian drinks of all, with its highly-recognisable red packaging, often enjoyed in place of Campari cocktails because of its similar dark, ruby-red color.

This drink is carbonated with a slightly sweet, citrus flavor. The recipe is more complex than that of an orange or lemon soda, with notes of spice and herbs, making it ideal to pair with your aperitivo-hour snacks.

Crodino

Crodino looks a lot like an Aperol Spritz with its bright orange hue, and that’s not an accident: it’s said to have been created as a non-alcoholic alternative, and the zesty, slightly herbal taste is similar. It’s typically served the same way. in a round goblet glass over ice with a slice of orange: a Crodino Spritz.

The name comes from the town of Crodo in Piedmont, where it is still bottled today by the Campari group.

Chinotto

Citrusy Chinotto is an acquired taste for many, but it’s worth trying: it’s one of the classic Italian bitters and is said to have a long history, dating back to a recipe shared by Chinese sailors arriving on the Ligurian coast in the 1500s.

It may look a little like Coca Cola, but don’t let the appearance fool you.

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Aranciata/Limonata

Aranciata is Italy’s version of an orange soda, but not as sugary, and it tastes like oranges. Its base is sparkling water with the addition of orange juice and sugar. There are various brands, but San Pellegrino’s is the most popular. It also sells a ‘bitter’ aranciata amaro, with even less sugar, more citrus tang and herbal notes, which might be more aperitivo-hour appropriate.

Limonata is, as you might guess, the Italian answer to lemonade. Again there are many versions out there but the fizzy San Pellegrino limonata is beloved for its strong, sweet-sour flavour and there’s nothing more refreshing on a hot summer’s day.

Cedrata

Cedrata is one of Italy’s oldest and best-known non-alcoholic drinks. It’s a refreshing, carbonated drink made from a large citrus fruit called a cedro, grown in southern Italy. It’s far less bitter than a Chinotto, but not as sweet as limonata.

The main producer of Cedrata today is Tassoni, and this is what you’re likely to get if you order it at a bar.

Gingerino

This is harder to find than the other aperitivi on the list and is seen as decidedly retro, but it’s worth trying if you can track it down.

It’s another orange-coloured, sparkling drink which became popular in Italy in the 1970s and is still sold today, though you’re more likely to find it in the north-east, close to Venice, where it’s produced.

You may be expecting it to taste a lot like ginger beer, and there are similarities, but it has stronger citrus notes and more bitterness.

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