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‘I dream about returning to England one day’

Make-up artist Nicki Storey had been going on holiday to Positano on the Amalfi Coast since the age of 12, so it was the obvious choice to spend a summer learning Italian. She tells The Local how she ended up staying for 15 years, and the hidden frustrations of her 'dolce vita'.

'I dream about returning to England one day'
Nicki Storey with daughter Skye. Photo: Nicki Storey

What attracted you to the Amalfi Coast?

It was never my plan to live in Italy. I was only going to stay for a summer to learn the language and then go back to London, but I was having too much fun to leave at the end of the summer. Then of course I met Carlo, fell in love…and here I still am!

I chose Positano because I already knew it. I had been coming on holiday here with a schoolfriend since I was 12, and from the age of 18 to 22 I lived on and off in Positano with my boyfriend. I already had quite a network of friends in town, so it was the obvious choice really.

So was there a particular moment when Italy started to really feel like 'home'?

Honestly, I think Positano has always felt like home. I've always felt comfortable here and I think having been around since I was little, having childhood memories here helps. Although I have never stopped thinking of England as home either, I love going back to visit and actually dream about living there again one day!

Looking at some of the photos on your blog, it seems like you have the true 'dolce vita' lifestyle. Are there any not so idyllic aspects?

Oh yes, but I get in trouble if I blog about the bad stuff! In the summer you tend to get fed up with tourists everywhere and then in the winter you get fed up of everything being closed and nobody being around. It is also a very small town and there is far too much small town gossip for my liking.

Most people only know the Amalfi coast as a holiday destination. What is it like once the tourist season is over?

Positano is totally different in the winter. The majority of shops, hotels and restaurants close down from the beginning of November until Easter. The beach is empty, the boats vanish and from January to March a lot of the locals go travelling, so it really becomes a ghost town. 

In January or February there is often snow on the mountain tops and it feels really cold. Although it might not get much lower than eight degrees celsius, it feels colder because it is so humid. Clothes feel damp when you get dressed, a lot of places don't have central heating and it can rain heavily for days on end.

Working as a makeup artist, have you noticed many differences between English and Italian fashions?

Yes, English brides tend to want a very simple, natural look for their wedding while Italians go for a much stronger make-up look. English wedding guests dress much more colourfully, the women with those funny fascinators on their heads and flowery dresses, whereas the Italians go for all out glamour – dressing up to the nines – but mainly in black.

Would you recommend Positano as a good place to bring up a family? 

It depends what you are looking for. It is a very safe place and I think it is amazing that kids in Positano have the freedom to run around the beach and take the bus home alone at an early age, something that is virtually impossible in most other places.

But my daughter longs for a bicycle and rollerskates, she gasps when she sees a patch of grass and is beyond excited when she sees a play park. I think the education system here is incredibly old-fashioned too: school six days a week, no half-terms, and so much homework that there is never any time to play or have a weekend away with the family.

After 15 years living in Italy, are there any aspects of Italian life that still frustrate you or that you just don't understand?

You know what frustrates me? The driving. I take my daughter to school in Sorrento so I spend two hours a day on the coast road taking her there and back, and the standard of driving is just shocking.

I can't figure out how they all manage to stay alive. People have no respect for traffic lights, pedestrian crossings, signalling. They push, shove, cut you up, don't wait their turn, drive either three mph or 300 mph, but never in between, and generally leave me screaming in frustration every single day. 

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Living in Spain: Why Valencia is officially the best city in the world for foreign residents

Anyone who lives there probably already knows it to be true. But now the secret is out: Valencia has officially been declared the most desirable city to live abroad as a foreign citizen.

Living in Spain: Why Valencia is officially the best city in the world for foreign residents
Valencia tops a ranking of 66 cities in the world for expats. Photo by Giuseppe Buccola on Unsplash

The Mediterranean city in the east of Spain ranks top in the annual Expat Insider Survey published by InterNations.

More than 15,000 expats participated in the survey which analysed 66 cities around the globe during March 2020 in pre-Covid times and before the global pandemic sparked lockdowns.

The survey placed four Spanish cities in the top ten worldwide; Valencia in first place, followed by Alicante (2nd), Málaga (6th), Madrid (9th). 

Spanish cities overwhelmingly score high for the ease of settling in and quality of life indices but score less well when it comes to urban work life, because Spain can’t compete on the work opportunities front.

The city of Barcelona lags far behind in 25 place since expat life seems to be most expensive there: it ranks far behind the other Spanish cities in both the Finance & Housing and the Local Cost of Living Indices.   

So what’s so great about Valencia?


Photo by travelnow.or.crylater on Unsplash

 

Well, according to the survey which asked more than 15,000 expatriates representing 173 nationalities and living in 181 countries, the Spanish city scored the best in all five indices but one.

It ranked first worldwide in both the Quality of Urban Living and the Local Cost of Living Indices.

In fact, 94 percent of expats rate the local cost of living positively (compared to 46 percent globally), and 91 percent consider healthcare easily available (vs. 74 percent globally) which places the city first in the Health & Environment subcategory.

The climate is also a big draw with Valencia ranking second in that category thanks to conditions that are not too hot or too dry but with plenty of sunshine and a sea breeze that means summer temperatures usually max out at between 32-35C, far more hospitable than the over 40C found in parts of Andalucia and inland Spain.

Valencia also ranked well for its leisure options (4 in the survey) with vast stretches of beach within the city, the warm Mediterranean to enjoy swimming, watersports and sailing as well lots of parks and bikes routes and hills to explore inland.


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It’s also easy to get settled in Valencia. More than four in five expats (84 percent) find it easy to get used to the local culture (vs. 61 percent globally), and 91 percent say that the local residents are generally friendly (vs. 68 percent globally).

And more than four out of five expats in Valencia (82 percent) find that housing is affordable in the city, compared to 41 percent globally.

“The quality of life and the cost of living” are what makes Valencia great, according to one American expat who responded to the survey.

Where Valencia, and indeed all Spanish destinations, score badly is in the Job and Career categories.

Valencia ranks 62 out of 66 in this section with 46 percent of expats living in Valencia admitting that they are unhappy with their local career opportunities.

“Finding employment has always been difficult,” responded a French expat living in Valencia.

But all the reasons that make Valencia a favourite among expats are also found just down the coast in the region’s second city Alicante, which ranks a close number 2 on the list beating Lisbon, Panama City and Singapore.

Malaga appears at number 6 on the global list and Madrid at number 9, although Spain’s capital scores the most points globally for “leisure options”.

Barcelona however doesn’t make it into the top ten or even top 20. In fact it ranks 25th out of 66 cities in the world. Only 53 percent of expats are satisfied with the state of the local economy (vs. 63 percent globally). According to the survey 28 percent of expats in the city are dissatisfied with their financial situation (vs. 21 percent globally), and 67 percent find local housing unaffordable (vs. 41 percent globally).

“I do not like the working conditions, the pay is too low, and the rents are high,” remarked one German expat.

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