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American dad defends Swedish mother

The American father whose infant son was left unattended outside a restaurant in the United States has defended his Swedish wife's actions, claiming that 'hysterical' passers-by over-reacted.

American dad defends Swedish mother

“The people who reported the incident to the police were there when my wife came out of the restaurant,” the father, who wished to remain anonymous, told The Local.

“They were hysterical, screamed at her in front of our child, told her she was a bad mother and there should be laws against people like her having children.”

The incident took place last Friday outside the Bueno y Sano taco bar in Amherst, Massachusetts, a small college town in the eastern United States.

The infant’s Swedish mother left her son in his stroller while she went into the eatery to order her food.

Witnesses who called police claimed the baby was left alone for 10 minutes, although the Swedish woman insists she was able to see the child through the restaurant window.

Police who arrived on the scene interviewed the Swedish mother about what had happened while at the same time being forced to calm down the people who reported the incident.

“Police officers had to chase the people away and order them to leave the scene. They were hysterical,” according to the Swedish woman’s account of the incident, as retold by the father.

“No charges are filed. No one was arrested. She left the scene with our child moments after the incident and the police interviewing her.”

An official from social services did pay a visit to the couple’s home following the incident, but no further action is expected to be taken.

“It’s all over,” said the father.

Nevertheless, his Swedish wife remains shaken by the event.

“She was frightened. American police carry guns and it’s scary to have police approach you in a foreign country,” he said.

The father explained that his wife had just returned to the United States after spending three months in Sweden and thus “may have been a little lax” in relation to American perceptions for when it’s appropriate to leave a child unattended.

In addition, he described the place where the stroller was left as more of a courtyard than a street.

“It’s very Swedish to let your baby continue sleeping in the yard after a walk if the baby is sleeping,” he said.

“Our child is super mellow, and loves to hang out in his stroller.”

The father added that he had no problem with his wife’s actions.

“It doesn’t bother me at all,” he said.

While he admitted he wouldn’t have left the infant outside a restaurant in the United States, his decision not to do so would be less for the child’s safety than for fear of upsetting passers-by.

“I know how insane Americans are about this issue,” he said.

“One bad incident happens somewhere, and 300 million people all hear about it on the news and get hysterical and paranoid.”

The father believes the fact that the incident became blown out of proportion stems in part from differences in how Americans and Swedes use strollers.

“One of the reasons Stockholmers leave strollers around is because they don’t drive, they walk, and therefore have these monstrous sized strollers. They buy strollers for strolling, and they do a lot of it,” he said.

“American strollers are designed to fold up small are fit into cars which is how 99 percent of Americans transport their children around.  Strollers are rarely used to transport children because Americans drive everywhere, so they use small strollers that pack into cars.”

As a result, he argues, Americans aren’t used to seeing large strollers parked outside of restaurants and cafés, a common sight in Stockholm and other European cities.

“You can go watch from the inside of a store and see that the child is just fine for almost any amount of time in Sweden,” he said.

“Here in the states, you can’t do that.  People will instantly crowd around the child and make a giant scene.”

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US reclassifies Switzerland: What does it mean for American travellers?

America’s public health agency eased travel alerts for dozens of countries this week, including Switzerland. But does it mean that people from the United States can now travel here?

US reclassifies Switzerland: What does it mean for American travellers?
Not yet, but hopefully soon. Photo by Jan Rosolino / Unsplash

Switzerland in early June announced vaccinated travellers would be able to come on June 28th. Therefore, this story is now out of date. Please click here for more information. 

Due to massive vaccination efforts around the world, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) lowered travel warning levels  for more than 110 countries and destinations, including Switzerland.

From the highest level four previously, which means all travel is discouraged, Switzerland was ‘promoted’ to Level 3, allowing travel for fully vaccinated individuals.

In total, 14 countries, including Switzerland’s neighbours France and Italy, have been reclassified to a lower level.

Does this mean American tourists can now come to Switzerland?

Even though the CDC has cleared travel for vaccinated US residents, it doesn’t mean they are now allowed to enter Switzerland.

For the time being, travel ban is still in place for most third countries, including the United States. The only exceptions are Swiss citizens or permanent residents returning to Switzerland.

READ MORE: When will Americans be allowed to travel to Switzerland again —and vice-versa?

There are some other exemptions as well, including people whose presence in Switzerland is absolutely necessary to maintain the functioning of the healthcare system or public security and order, death of a close family member in Switzerland, and to continue essential medical treatment that began in Switzerland or abroad.

Each of these conditions must be proven with official documentation.

For other ‘special necessity’ rules, see SEM’s page.

Basically, this means that tourists or other random travellers can’t come to Switzerland at the moment.

There are, however, some promising signs that this restriction may be lifted.

Swiss president Guy Parmelin is scheduled to meet with his US counterpart, Joe Biden, on June 15th. Biden will be in Geneva for high-level talks with Russia’s president Vladimir Putin. 

It is not known what Switzerland and the United States will discuss at the meeting, beyond matters of importance to both nations, but there is a possibility that the subject of easing travel restrictions on both sides will be raised.

Also, under France’s new traffic light travel system, fully-vaccinated travellers can now enter France from non-EU countries, including the US.

This does not apply to Switzerland yet, but as the two countries share a border and both are part of the Schengen zone, Swiss entry regulations for US tourists might be relaxed in the near future — though not at this time.

Does this mean US residents can ‘slip’ into Switzerland through France?

Borders between the two countries are pretty porous and checks random at best, but if you attempt to get into Switzerland this way, you’d be breaking the law.

The only US citizens who can come into Switzerland legally right now are those residing in the EU/EFTA states, or one of the third nations deemed safe by public health officials:  Australia, New Zealand, Cyprus, Rwanda, South Korea, Singapore, and Thailand.

In other words, it’s not the nationality of a traveller that counts but their place of residence.

What about Swiss citizens going on vacation to the United States?

The US still has a ban in place for tourists from the EU, including Switzerland. It also has similar exceptions — that is, US citizens and permanent residents returning from abroad.

The US is forming expert groups to decide when to lift global travel restrictions that have been in place since March 2020.

However, this will probably take time and, despite mounting pressure from the travel industry and airlines, US-bound travel may not be on the horizon for this summer.

READ MORE: How to get Switzerland’s Covid-19 health pass

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